The thing people aren't realizing is that Jay doesn't WANT a hole in the wall feel
But it is a hole in the wall, thats part of what we love about it! It's like having a secret clubhouse to go to. A place where you can be yourself and not get looked down at by the snotty college kids.
I think that Jaxx should capitalize on the vibe it gives off naturally. It's got a really loyal fanbase and crowd, so why not give the website the same type of feel? Something stylized to show that it's a warm and welcoming environment for both local and national music. Right now, the gray doesn't have much personality, and the little picture banner at the top is a little too busy. What you could do is choose one really good photo to illustrate the feel of Jaxx, and have some graphic links rather than text. That would make the links more obvious, and save you from having to underline them.
Just look at band websites. They illustrate the band before you even know what music they play.